Have you ever had something that once inspired you suddenly stop resonating? That happened to me with The Intentional Roamer. For a while, I didn’t know what to share or even what felt right to say. So, I took a step back. I listened—to my intuition, my curiosity, and the voice inside that said, “It’s okay to pause.”

That pause confirmed a few things for me. I realized how powerful it is to trust myself, even when I don’t have all the answers. I’ve become more open, more creative, and more at peace with not knowing exactly what’s next.

Now, I’m exploring what it means to live in a “no-shoulds” zone—where alignment, not obligation, leads the way. 

I had an experience recently that brought up some old insecurities. I was triggered emotionally, and I was really surprised by my reaction. It took me at least 24 hours to understand why I reacted the way I did. I realized that the old insecurity was that I didn’t belong.

I was a bit embarrassed by it. I hadn’t felt that way in so long and honestly thought I had dealt with it and moved on. That’s the thing about triggers. They are here to guide us and point to places that still need healing.

For most of my life, I’ve carried the belief that I didn’t fit in. It shaped the way I moved through the world. It made me question my worth. And, at times, it made me feel very alone.

So I began to look within because the pain of staying the same finally outweighed the fear of change.